Messenger & Inbox

Discover all Messenger features in one overview.

CAM4 Messenger: improved DM experience

Easier to use and much more powerful than just chatting. This guide shows you all the chat and media features, plus how to earn with them.

Tip: Start using Pay‑Per‑Text to get paid for messages and media.

Quick introduction

Overview Messenger features

Overview Messenger features

Benefits of CAM4 Messenger

Messenger mobile example

Increased privacy

Make connections with viewers you choose, via chat and private shows.

Filter options

Remove unwanted chat sessions in bulk so your inbox isn’t cluttered with old DMs.

Make money

Earn tokens with tips, pay-per-text, content sales, gifts and private shows.

Mobile friendly

The Messenger works smoothly and clearly on the go.

Chat upgrades

Chat features

Save, reply, delete, GIFs and emojis — plus extra control over who can message you.

  • Reply and save per message
  • Message management (delete, report)
  • GIFs, emojis and media previews
  • Who can approach you: tighter control

Winks

Wink’s are sent from Non-gold users who would like to chat with you. The ability to type in the chat will only be enabled once you reply to their wink.

Gold users can message anyone they want – No winks needed!

Wink and chatflow

Sell content (directly in DM)

Sell content in chat

Add your content directly in the chat so viewers can buy it and watch it immediately.

Sell content in chat

Share Fan Clubs

Promote your Fanclub via DM. The viewer clicks through, becomes a member and then can access your content in the chat.

Fanclub link example

Host a private show via Messenger

Offer private shows at any time, without having to go live from your profile.

  • Choose: Cam2Cam or standard private show
  • Start via the camera icon in the top right of the chat window
  • Earnings appear directly in the chat afterwards

Tip: Add a Private show schedule so viewers know you’re ready to go!

Camera icon private show

Example screens

Start private show from chat Review and earnings in chat

Afterwards, the viewer can rate the show; you will see your earnings immediately.

Safety and information

Report users

Submit a report for our support team to investigate. Note: this will not remove the user’s ability to contact you.

Report user

Ban users

Ban removes the user from your chat and shows; your name disappears from his/her search results.

Chat Bot

Our chat Bot provides direct answers to questions about Messenger, shows and rules.

Organize with filters

Inbox management

Filter conversations, group and save important messages. Manage your inbox quickly with bulk delete.

Filters and inbox management

Media tab

All of the media you send or receive in the chat will appear in the Media Tab and can be sorted by ‘Unlocked’, ‘Photos’ and ‘Videos’, making it super easy to find!

Media tab overview

Save

Find important info later? Use the “Saved” tab per conversation. Everything is shown chronologically.

SWAG Store – UK Only

New SWAG store: redeem your points for free goodies or convert them to CAM4 tokens — simple, fast and nicely organized.

The renewed SWAG store: points → goodies or tokens

Use your points for free products or convert them to CAM4 tokens. Everything in one simple flow — you choose.

Tip: you automatically save (up to 5% on top of your income) — check your points and redeem them.

CAM4 Pride SWAG

What is the SWAG store?

The SWAG store is the exclusive shop where you exchange points for goodies: sex toys, lubricant, CAM4 merch and more.

Save up to 5% on top of your income! With every earning, you automatically build up points for extras.

Discover the categories

Check out Cheetah Collection, SEX TOYS, Accessories, Classic Collection and European Products (scroll down a bit).

How does it work?

  1. Create account — click on the figure icon in the top right of the store to log in/register.
  2. Shopping — choose your favorites and add them to your shopping cart.
  3. Redeem points (rewards) — click on the gift icon in the bottom left to see your points balance.
    1 point = 1 USD. Click ‘redeem’ to create a voucher for the desired number of points; you will receive a unique discount code.
  4. Use discount code — add the code to your shopping cart; the amount will be deducted immediately.

Don’t forget to fill in your name in this form (so that we can easily find you):

Prefer tokens over products?

Also possible: exchange your points for CAM4 tokens. You can then simply have them paid out.

Why you don’t want to miss this

  • Choose free products with your points.
  • You decide when you order.
  • Everything clearly in one system.
  • Really feels like a reward for your work.

Go to the SWAG store

Note: availability may vary per region. Check your delivery options during checkout.

Selling Personal Items

Earn extra with personal items — safely, discreetly, and within your own boundaries.

Sell Personal Items via CAM4 — Safely & Discreetly

In addition to tips and shows, you can also sell personal items to your fans. This can be a nice extra source of income, but safety and privacy should always come first.

Remember: protect your data, get paid via CAM4 first, and package personally and discreetly.

What can you sell?

Popular items

  • Handwritten letters or cards with a personal message
  • Photos or printed polaroids (with or without signature)
  • Worn panties, lingerie, or socks
  • Accessories or jewelry you wore during a show
  • Fun extras: lipstick prints or a fragrance on a cloth

Tip: creative, personal, and unique = more value for your fan.

Your boundaries

Determine in advance what you do/don’t want to offer, and communicate this clearly in your profile or feed.

  • Work with limited stock (FOMO works).
  • Add delivery time (e.g., shipped within 5–7 business days).
  • Use a standard text for confirmation and shipping update.

Privacy first

Protecting data

  • Never put your home address on the package (sender).
  • Use a shipping point/parcel shop or P.O. box.
  • Online postage? Use systems where your address is not visible to the recipient.

Discretion first

  • Neutral outer packaging without logos or hints to the contents.
  • Do not place socials or personal info in/on the package.
  • Recognizable labels/invoices? Hide them invisibly (or digitally).

Get paid safely

Only via CAM4

Always get paid via CAM4 first. Do not agree to bank transfers or external methods — you share private data and run the risk of fraud/chargebacks.

Is the amount in your CAM4 account? Then you know that the payment is safe and final. Only send it after that.

Make it special

Personal touch

  • Handwritten note with the buyer’s name
  • Tissue paper or lightly scented paper (within your boundaries)
  • Small extra: polaroid or mini-sticker

Professional & discreet

  • Sturdy outer packaging, neutral from the outside
  • No references to content or platform
  • Standard thank you text + shipping update via your CAM4 messages

In summary: offer creative, personal items — but always put safety and privacy first. Payment via CAM4 first, never share your address, and package everything carefully and discreetly.

Extra promotion? UK only

Want to be in the spotlight? Upload your photos with your permission and let CAM4 promote you through our official channels.

Let CAM4 Promote You: Upload Your Photos (With Consent)

With your photos, we can promote you through our official channels — so you can reach more viewers faster and build a loyal fanbase.

Tip: upload multiple photos with different angles and poses for the best match with our channels.

How Does It Work?

Simply upload your latest photos via the form. We review them and prepare them for promotion. Do you have new content? Feel free to upload again. Want to switch faster? Send us a message.

Short Checklist

  • Recent, sharp images (good lighting, quiet background).
  • Mix of close-ups and full-body.
  • Indicate in the form where you want to be visible (opt-in/opt-out).

Where Will You Be Promoted?

Twitter / X

Optional — you choose whether you want to be visible here (adjustable in the form).

Telegram

For direct fans and followers who want to quickly see when you are online.

Push Notifications

Directly to CAM4 users for maximum visibility.

This way we ensure that your name and content reach as many people as possible.

Consent is Key

Nothing is shared without your permission. In the upload form, you indicate yourself what may and may not be used. You keep control — including a separate choice for Twitter/X.

You Decide

  • Choose per channel whether you want to be visible.
  • Adjust your preferences whenever you want by uploading again.

Respect for Boundaries

We only work with material that you have explicitly allowed and that falls within the platform rules.

Ready to Shine?

Click below to upload your photos and indicate how we may promote you:

➡ Upload Your Photos Here

We look forward to sharing your content and giving you even more visibility!

Please note: by submitting you agree to review and use according to your specified preferences. You can always change your preferences by uploading again.

Regional Block

Block regions or countries: hide your profile from specific locations — here’s how to set it up (and when it is or isn’t smart).

Block Regions/Countries on CAM4

Hide your profile from visitors from selected provinces or countries. Please note: not watertight (mobile IP/VPN can bypass blockades).

Tip: It’s better to block your province than an entire country — most of your income often comes from your own region.

What Does Region Blocking Do?

If you block a province or country, visitors with an IP address from that region cannot find your profile. If they search for your username, it will appear as if your profile does not exist.

Good to Know

  • Blockades do not work on all mobile IP addresses.
  • Proxy/VPN users can bypass blockades.
  • Blocking too broadly can reduce your reach and income.

Advice

  • Use blocking sparingly.
  • If possible, choose to block at the province level.
  • Regularly evaluate whether the blockade is still necessary.

How to Set Up a Block

  1. Go to your Broadcaster Dashboard by selecting your profile picture in the top right corner (drop-down opens).
  2. Choose ‘Block Regions / Countries’ under Performer Tools in the sidebar.
  3. Select the country or region you want to block and click ‘Save’.

Landen/regio’s blokkeren

After saving, your profile is not visible in the chosen province or countries.

Undo Blockade

Want to remove the blockade? Click the trash can icon behind the country or region.

Blokkade verwijderen

Make a Conscious Choice

Reach vs. Privacy

Most performers earn the most from viewers from their own country. Blocking too much can slow your growth. Weigh your privacy wish against visibility and income.

Summary: block specifically (preferably province), remember that mobile/VPN can bypass blockades, and check periodically whether your settings are still correct.

First time live – Password Practice Show

A safe start to check everything in advance!

Offline Practice Before Your First LIVE Broadcast

Before you go live for the first time, you can practice with a Password Show first. This way you can discover how broadcasting works in peace and quiet — without direct viewers in your room.

Tip: Use this as your “dress rehearsal” to reduce stress and go live with confidence.

What is a Password Show?

A Password Show is a private broadcast that is only accessible to people with the password you set. You can just keep this password to yourself so you can practice completely privately.

Practice: What Are You Going to Test?

1) Explore the Buttons

See how your camera appears, where you set your goals, and how to make the Tip Menu visible.

2) Test Your Setup

Check your light, sound, background, and camera position without pressure from viewers.

3) Practice Your Flow

Go through how you want to build a show: from greeting to working with goals and menus.

Make it a practice show — use micro-goals as if you were live. This way you learn what goals look like on screen.

  • Goal 1: 10 tokens = check what the goal looks like
  • Goal 2: 20 tokens = test sound and music
  • Goal 3: 30 tokens = change camera position

Pro tip: write down notes during your Password Show — what works well, what do you want to adjust?

Why This is Smart

A Password Show gives you:

  • Peace to learn the platform technically
  • Confidence before going live for a large audience
  • Less chance of stress or technical glitches during your first real show

Setting Up a Password Show

Go to your broadcast screen, choose “Show Type” and select Password Show. Set a password and keep it only for yourself if you just want to practice.

Steps:

Open Broadcast Screen
Choose ‘Password Show’
cam4 password show

Set Password
cam4 password settings

Go Live & Test
cam4 private

You can use the same process later to do a private show with a select group of fans.

Do’s

  • Use the Password Show as your practice space
  • Test both camera and sound extensively
  • See how goals and tips appear on screen
  • Feel free to practice multiple times before you go “really” live

Pay Attention

  • Don’t forget to set your settings back to a regular broadcast after your Password Show
  • Don’t just pass on your password if you really want to practice privately
  • Always stay within your own boundaries and platform rules — even in a Password Show

Important: adhere to local laws and platform rules. Only 18+ performers and consent is always required.

Tips for Kicking Things Off Right

We’ll tell you everything here — short, clear, and applicable.

The secrets to becoming a TOP webcam model on CAM4

This article helps you get off to a flying start for more viewers, more interaction and more tokens — without unnecessary complexity. Focus on your Activity Feed and Fanclub for reach and stable income.

Tip: work with clear goals, a clear Tipmenu and a consistent posting cadence on your Feed.

1) Start here: account, verification & payout

Before you can go live: verify your age/identity and set up your payout in 10 minutes. Block countries/regions if necessary.

Account & ID‑check (2257)

All performers (18+) must be ID‑verified. This also applies to duos/groups — everyone on cam must be verified.

Get started with ID‑verification

Set up payout

Choose your payment method and check your details. Read how and when you will be paid.

Payout optionsSet it up now!

Practice online for the first time

Start without being immediately visible. This way you can safely look around and set everything up in peace

Read here how to do that.

2) Create an irresistible profile

Your profile is your landing page. Show in 5 seconds who you are, what you do and when you are live.

Bio

Short and powerful, with your vibe and boundaries. Add your broadcast schedule and a clear call‑to‑action.

Images

A clear profile picture + 2–4 recent photos that show your style.
Avoid busy backgrounds and very important add a

SFW profile pic
.

Clarity

Put your Tipmenu and (micro)goals in your description so viewers know immediately how they can participate.

More help? How to create a strong profile page

3) Set goals and achieve them

Without a goal, your show feels “non‑committal”. Break your daily goal down into visible micro‑goals and communicate them clearly.

Example — do you want 1000 tokens (~100 USD) per show? Divide into 4 milestones of 250 tokens.

  • Goal 1: 250 tokens = naked
  • Goal 2: 250 tokens = oil‑moment
  • Goal 3: 250 tokens = solo
  • Goal 4: 250 tokens = closing moment (only if you feel good about it)

Stick to your goals. Changing constantly damages trust — and your tips.

Hint: the text in your goal bar is limited. Keep the mapping‑scheme simple (e.g. @250 → naked, @500 → oil, @750 → solo, @1000 → end).

More help? Goal & Tipmenu

4) Increase Your Visibility with Niche Pages

Being discovered by the right viewers is no coincidence. By adding yourself to relevant Niche Pages, you connect with fans who are specifically searching for your style, look, or type of content.

Choose strategically

Select niches that truly match who you are. Does it align with your profile, hashtags, and type of show? If so, you’ll attract more targeted and higher‑quality traffic.

Stay consistent

Make sure your bio, photos, and thumbnail reflect your chosen niches. Recognition builds trust — and tips.

Think ahead

Want to grow within a specific category? Stream regularly within that theme so your audience knows what to expect.

Tip: combine 2–4 strong niches instead of selecting everything. Focus works better than volume.

Want to learn more? Everything about Niche Pages

4) Earn more with group shows and private shows

Group show = exclusive show with ticket for multiple viewers. Start after a maximum of ~15 minutes intro and thank each ticket holder audibly.

Private show = 1‑on‑1 per minute (spies can watch for a fee, without chat). Choose a rate that suits your offer and experience.

Starter rate

Many models start around 12–18 tokens/min.

C2C

Cam2Cam is more common around 18–32 tokens/min.

Transparency

Viewers see your price + local taxes, keep this in mind.

Pro‑tip: name in advance what makes private different/better than your public show.

Read more: Group shows •  Private Show options

Offline private shows (notifications)

Also let fans book when you are not live. Turn on OPS‑notifications and accept when it suits you.

Explanation: Enable Offline Private‑notifications

5) Activity Feed & Fanclub 

Activity Feed: post short updates, teasers and show‑announcements outside your live‑hours. Mix public (reach) with Fanclub‑only (value).

Fanclub: offer benefits that you can sustain (exclusive posts, early access, monthly shout‑out). Choose a monthly price that suits your rhythm.

Want to know more? Activity Feed & FanClub

6) Tipmenu (keep it simple and visible)

Put 6–10 fixed items in your profile description and repeat them verbally during your show. Link to your goals where possible.

Small tease 25 tokens quick boost
Pose / close‑up 50 tokens
Dance / hype‑moment 100 tokens
Wheel spin / mini‑game 150 tokens
Oil‑moment 250 tokens
Solo‑highlight 500 tokens
Group show ticket variable
Private show per minute

Need more help? How many tokens can I ask?

7) Pay-Per Text

Pay per Text: earn from DMs without negotiating

How to use it

Set a fixed price per private message and mention this in your bio or Feed. Use it for short questions, personal responses and quick requests — within your boundaries and platform rules.

Price indication

Start simple and test: many models start between 1-2 tokens/message. Increase when busy, decrease for more volume.

Useful example sentences

  • “Want a personal shoutout? Pay per Text is on.”
  • “Ask your question in DM — 1-2 tokens per message.”
  • “Fanclub gets priority with Pay per Text.”

More info: Earn more with Pay per Text •  All about messenger

8) More viewers to your shows

  • Thumbnail: fresh setting, good light, expression. Avoid the “just a bedroom”‑look.
  • Description: short, unique and with a clear invitation (what do you want to happen NOW?).
  • Hashtags: 3–5 strong tags is often enough.
  • Rhythm: stream at fixed times and announce via your Feed.

Read more: Maybe outside? •  Schedule Shows

9) Interactive toys

Increase engagement and tip‑frequency with interactive toys (e.g. Lovense). Announce thresholds (e.g. “at 200 tokens: intensity up”).

More info: Which toys can you use? •  How do you connect it?

10) Games

Use Token Keno, Spin the Wheel and Roll The Dice for extra excitement and income. Let viewers bet tokens and link creative rewards to outcomes (assignment, piece of clothing off, special interaction).

Need more help with games? All CAM4 games

11) X/Twitter Connect & Social Media

Use X/Twitter for announcements, clips/teasers and community‑building. Share your affiliate‑link smartly.

Tip: plan posts around your shows (morning‑announcement, reminder 1 hour in advance, thank you afterwards).

12) Chat‑indicators: badges, colors and token activity

Who do you see at a glance?

  • Gold/fans: special color/badge — greet quickly, involve them in goals.
  • Moderators: marked — are there to help, but be careful those rights are not for everyone.
  • Top tippers: stand out — mention them audibly with every tip.
  • CAM4 Crew: account managers/coaches etc have clear visibility.

How to read and use indicators

  • Colors/badges show role and membership; the ring around someone’s icon = recent spending (14 days).
  • Does the ring stand out? Invite specifically: achieve micro‑goal or choose 1–2 menu‑suggestions (e.g. 25/50/150 tokens).
  • Use a fixed sentence: “120 more to go until Goal 2 — thanks to [name] for the boost!”
  • Make rewards audible: thank you at every threshold (name + what unlocks).

Want to know more? Explanation about chat‑indicators

13) Protect yourself & moderate

Privacy

Be careful with personal data. Protect your privacy

DMCA – recordings

Know what to do if your show has been recorded. Broadcast recorded — what now?

Help!

If you really can’t figure it out, our support is available 24/7!

Also interesting: Banning & ModeratorsBlock countries & provinces

Erotic Stories Submissions


CAM4 is now publishing Erotic Stories and we want yours!

If your story is chosen, it will be published, narrated, shared with our audience, and you’ll get paid. You can even choose to stay anonymous if you prefer.

Word limit: 500–1500 words. That’s all it takes to turn your imagination into income.
Payment details: Will be provided by email if your story is selected.
Publishing: Selected stories will be filmed, creating narrated videos that are published weekly on our Erotic_stories profile on CAM4.
Editing: Light editing may be applied for a smoother read for video narration and to comply with CAM4’s terms and conditions.


Why Submit?

  • Get seen. Your story reaches thousands of readers & listeners.

  • Get paid. Selected stories earn real money.

  • Get creative. Share your fantasies in your own unique voice.

  • Get Content. Use your story yourself by selling it to your fans.

Quick Writing Tips

  • Find your voice — be authentic and let your style shine.

  • Build tension — anticipation is everything.

  • Make it sensory — show, don’t just tell.

  • Keep it polished — clean writing stands out.

  • Don’t get too wordy – Stay within 500–1500 words.

For a full beginner’s guide with more tips, click here.

Ready to Submit?

It’s simple:

  1. Write your story (500–1500 words).

  2. 👉 Submit Your Story Here

  3. If your story has been selected, a CAM4 staff member will email you with more details


Your fantasies deserve more than to stay in your head. Put them on the page, share them with the world, and let them earn for you.

Start writing today — your audience is waiting.


Need a Hand?

For more information on topics relating to CAM4, check out our FAQ , or join our live Coaching Sessions every Tuesday & Thursday at 11 AM & 8 PM EST.

Our chatbot “Spark” is also always ready to help and can be found in your Inbox!


Now get writing, have fun, and let the love (and tokens) roll in!

Happy Camming!

Fan Club Pricing: What Successful Creators Charge

What is a CAM4 Fan Club?

A Fan Club is a monthly subscription where your biggest supporters pay a set fee to get exclusive access to you and your content. Unlike one-time token tips or purchases, Fan Clubs bring guaranteed monthly income directly into your account.

By joining, fans get:

  • Exclusive content (photos, videos, behind-the-scenes material). This is where your NSFW content should be hiding!
  • Special perks like chat badges, free spy access to shows, and private messaging.
  • Discounted rates on your premium videos and content.

Fan Clubs are not only about exclusive perks, they’re a way to strengthen your connection with fans while earning 80% from every subscription, more than you receive from token purchases!

Suggested Fan Club Pricing

Here are five options inspired by top creators and platforms:

50–75 tokens/month ($4.99–$7.99) – Perfect for beginners and building your base.

75–125 tokens/month ($7.99–$9.99) – The sweet spot for casual fans and one of the most popular ranges across platforms.

125–150+ tokens/month ($14.99+) – Best for creators with consistent content, loyal fans, and premium material.

Tip: Start in the mid-range (~$5.99) and adjust based on demand, the volume of your content, and fan engagement.

Quick Pricing Guide (Cheat Sheet)

Content Type

Entry / Promo

Standard Range

Premium / High Effort

Fan Club

50–75 tks ($4.99–$7.99)

75–125 tks ($7.99–$9.99)

125–150+ tks ($14.99+)

Photos (single)

Free – 5 tks

10–25 tks

30–50 tks

Photosets

10–25 tks (5–10 pics)

25–150 tks (10–15 pics)

50-300+ tks (15-20 pics)

Videos (short <3m)

Free – 25 tks (teasers)

50–120 tks

150 tks+

Videos (medium 3–10m)

1-25  tks

25–100 tks

120-300+ tks

Videos (long 15m+)

25-100 tks

250–400 tks

500–600 tks (high effort)

Tip: Use freebies (1–2 pics or <1 min clips) as teasers. Offer seasonal discounts (10–20%) to boost sales without devaluing your work.

Photosets & Unlockables

  • SFW content: Free or unlocked automatically to tease your style.
  • Single photos: 5–25 tokens depending on explicitness.
  • Bundles (5–10 pics): 15–25 tokens.
  • Larger sets (10–20 pics): 150–300 tokens.

Mix in occasional freebies on your Activity Feed. This gives fans a taste of what’s inside and helps hook new subscribers.

Videos

  • Short (1–3 mins): 50–120 tokens. Teasers and quick clips sell best here.
  • Medium (3–10 mins): 75–250 tokens depending on effort and explicitness.
  • Long (10–15+ mins): 250–600 tokens, especially for high-effort or special releases.

Pro tip: Cut longer videos into shorter clips for easier sales and more views. Keep a few <1 min teasers free for promotion.


Do’s and Don’ts for a Successful Fan Club

Do’s

  • Post consistently to give fans ongoing value.
  • Make members feel special with perks and exclusive drops.
  • Offer discounts or seasonal promos (10–20%).
  • Reply to messages — engagement keeps fans loyal.
  • Refresh your content often (new covers, contests, seasonal sets).

Don’ts

  • Don’t set it and forget it — inactivity = unsubscribes.
  • Don’t overprice if you’re not offering strong exclusive value.
  • Don’t forget to promote — mention your Fan Club in every post/show.
  • Don’t give everything away outside the Club — keep your best material inside.

Need a Hand?

For more details check out our FAQ on this topic and others, or join our live Coaching Sessions every Tuesday & Thursday at 11 AM & 8 PM EST.

Our chatbot “Spark” is also always ready to help and can be found in your Inbox!


Now go live, have fun, and let the love (and tokens) roll in!

Happy Camming!

EROTIC STORIES : A Beginners Guide To Writing

If you are a new or an experienced writer who is looking to have you stories published we are here for you. You can submit your story or idea to us for review and if we publish it we’ll pay you $$$!

SUBMIT YOUR STORY HERE

We are here for you!  So lets cut to the chase. Below, I will break down some actionable items to help you get started.

(Noun) literature or art intended to arouse sexual desire.

Erotica, unlike pornography, is designed to arouse and provide stimulation to the reader based around plot and character development. It is not just one long sex scene with all action. Not to say that your sex scenes can’t be explicit; the more detailed the better. However, it must be grounded in plot and character growth.

If your story contains more plot and characters, with minimal sex or less explicit scenes. You may be venturing into erotic romance.

If you are serious about getting started in erotica, we need to address privacy. One of the most important questions you’ll have to ask yourself is if you’ll write under your Industry name or a new pen name.

For those who don’t know. A pen name is essentially a pseudonym that you can use professionally in your writing, books, blogs, public profiles, and social media.

There are many pros to using a pen name. For example:

Using a pen name will allow you some creative freedom to write that is separate from your career in the adult industry.  You can keep that part of your life separate from your professional one and take on a whole new persona.

A con would be…

If you use a pen name instead of your industry one, you now need to grow that name instead of getting visibility right away due to your current success and following. 

Whichever route you take, it’s an important first step.

The erotica community is alive in all corners of the internet. At a minimum, I would recommend you join Twitter. If you are unsure on how Twitter works or the most effective ways to get noticed on that platform there are some great guides out there with a quick google search or even here on Medium.

After you complete your profile information and upload your picture (or icon, stock image if you are using a pen name) seek out some authors of interest. Do a quick #erotica search and you will be inundated with accounts to follow. Check out some profiles to see if they are writing the things you are into.

An important step that a lot of people miss, and the key to getting more involved in the community is simple: When you grab a copy of someone’s book, tell them. If you like it, let them know. Extra points if you leave a review. Not only will a review make you stand out from the crowd, they are rare and greatly appreciated in the world of erotica.

Let your growing audience know that you are new to the genre. You will find a very supportive group of people who can help you on your way.

Some great tags to keep tabs on are #erotica #writingcommunity #eroticacommunity

Time to loosen up. Open up a new document or start a new notebook and pour yourself a drink of your choice. We are going to get dirty. I want you to practice writing scenes made to titillate your audience. Your goal, after all, is to help someone reach their goal.

For example, don’t do this:

She reached for his love muscle and put it in her warm cavern.

Do this:

She grabbed his dick, smiling at the weight in her hand. Guiding the head to her slick entrance. She teased herself as she sat. Moaning as the thickness filled her cunt.

The second uses a lot more graphic language and some people will struggle with getting into the ‘dirty’ words. Practice them until you are comfortable. Take your last sexual encounter, write about it. Describe it as if you were writing it into a book. Watch some pornography, a quick 20–30 seconds sample and try to write it into words. Use all five senses.

Another exercise is to write short acts like the one above. Mix it up. Try it in the first person perspective, then switch and try it from the male POV. How did he see and feel things compared to her? Write that down, then keep going. Just keep filling your page or your document.

When you are starting out you may find it easier to write a story containing things you yourself are interested in or have a fetish about. If you have fantasies about lesbian or gay sex. Write a story about it. Hotwife, shared wife or cuckolding? Write it. Vampire alien breeding with a hucow who is into bondage. Yup write it. You will not be the only one into it.

A word of warning on this point. These kinds of stories will likely get your book removed as well as running the risk getting your account banned on Amazon: Underage, Non-Consent, Incest, Bestiality (unless its a werewolf or other mythical creatures) If you have any doubts refer to Amazon or the forums.

This rule is no different from that of other genres. If you want to be a good erotica writer you need to read a lot of erotic fiction. 

Download some books from the authors you are interacting with on Twitter. Pick up some from varying POV. Try some written by female and male authors. Maybe try different sub-genres that you have an interest in, but never experimented with.

Most of all, take notes. Write what you liked and what didn’t work for you. Review once you have a few stories under your belt. If you find yourself constantly liking to read third person stories, you will likely have more success concentrating on that POV. First person more your style? Write that way.

If you pick up some badly written erotica, just return it and move on to the next one. 

Make sure you enjoy what you write, burn out and lost motivation is as real in erotica as it is in other genres.

I cannot emphasize joining the community enough. I’ve met some great people since I started and would be at a loss without the other authors/readers on Twitter.

~That’s all for this lesson!

Happy Writting!
Love, Your Coaching Team!