A dominatrix is a woman who takes the dominant role in a bondage and discipline, sadism and masochism (BDSM) relationship with a willing partner (sometimes referred to as a submissive or ‘slave’). This relationship is very intimate and needs to have a strong foundation of trust and communication for it to be mutually satisfying for both parties.

There are two ways of acting out this fantasy, one is by simply dressing up like a dominatrix for fun, and the other is actually being the dominant role to your submissive. Read on for tips about both types of BDSM shows!

How to LOOK like a Dominatrix

To get into this role you need to have fun with it: turn on some dark sexy music, add lots of makeup, big hair, and tight well-fitting black clothes. The more time you spend getting into this character the more confident and sexy you will become and that is what really sells this look. This fantasy is about sexy, dominant, dark fetishism and more often than not is what your fans will be looking for.

For the Femme Fatale you will need:

• Cat suit or full body fishnet
• Corset
• Black boots or heels
• Stockings and garter belt
• Sexy black dress
• Gloves
• Whip or riding crop

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How to ACT like a Dominatrix

Being a true dominatrix can be very satisfying, but it demands a bit more commitment on your part. You should make sure you enjoy this role before you dive in – but once you start to develop this relationship with your fans they are extremely loyal and very eager to please.

How it’s done:

• Be Confident. How can you dominate someone else if you can’t assert yourself? Focus on the fact that YOU are in charge.

• Have a plan. There is a big role-playing component to being a dominatrix so thinking ahead and being creative will help you a lot. It will also make it more fun for you to slip into different dominating characters and easier for you to stay in this dominating role.

• Listen closely. As a dominatrix your job is to make your client feel safe so they can be sexually vulnerable to you; you explore their boundaries…then push them. You hold all the power so make sure you respect your client’s hard boundaries and there is mutual consent. A safe word or hand signal will stop things from going to far.

• Hold yourself correctly. Remember; you hold all the power; maintain good posture and carry yourself upright at all times. This lets people know subconsciously that you are in charge. 

• In the end it’s all about you. Being a dominatrix is very empowering; it’s the pleasure you get from dominating that will give you the self-confidence, self-awareness, and ability to control the conversation. A confident woman is so irresistible to a man because it brings out his animalistic lust, it will make him feel that her sexy appearance and attitude is all about him. As a dominatrix, it’s the other way around – make it clear that it is all about you and your pleasures and amusements. You would wear that outfit if he was there or not….you are wearing it for you bb.

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~That’s all for this lesson!

Happy Camming!
Love, Your Coaching Team!

 

Learn all the tools CAM4 has put at your fingertips to help you stay organized and manage your room.

Show Settings

Private Show Settings – Private show dashboard that allows you to set your per-minute rates, or your fixed rates (blocks of time). Enable  spy viewer rates.

Private Show Requests – When you get a private show request from a viewer you will see them here. You can simply accept the request or ignore it.

Game Center – Built in tipping games you play with your viewers for tokens during your public show. 
Tipping game show ideas

Tip Menu – A fun tool that allows you to create a customized list of actions with the corresponding token amount a viewer needs to tip for you to perform the action during your performance.
Your Tip Menu

Live Touch – Connect your toy to CAM4 and allow viewers to control the vibrations through tipping. 
Find out more on how to set up Live Touch 

Boost – Gold members, friends, and fan club subscribers will be able to send you PM’s (private messages) during your show.

Group Show – Customize the show that works for you. Set your ticket prices, # of tickets available, length of show, and length of time tickets will be available for purchase. 

Chat Windows

      Friend request 

        Settings 

For more info on these filters read the ‘Chat Settings’ article inside the ‘Broadcasting’ Catagory

The brown text color indicates viewers in your room who have tokens available in their CAM4 account. 

If the user is a gold member, tip leader, FanClub membe  an icon will  be present next to their username.

Admin’s will ALWAYS be represented with a CAM4 key Icon, the text “CAM4 Admin”, and comments in blue text. 

Broadcast Window Widgets

Access these control widgets by scrolling over the bottom of your broadcast image. 

  Your audio (what viewers hear)

  Full-screen.

  Mirror Image (Change your image from left to right)

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~That’s all for this lesson!

Happy Camming!
Love, Your Coaching Team!

 

Your Chat Settings allow you to completely customize your CAM4 chatroom experience. You decide who will be able to chat during your shows and when, you can turn your chat filters on, or off as you please. Feel like some extra privacy? Start a password protected room where you control who can enter. 

In the top right had corner of your broadcast window you will see a little Gear icon  where you can access your chat settings.

 

Pro Tip’s for performers on how to use your Chat Settings:

1.  Use your chat filters to clean up an overload of unwanted messages while you are actually doing a show. This will allow your friends, favorites, and tippers to chat to you instead of a million ‘feeetttt bb. plzzzzzzzz’ messages. 

2. Another clever idea is to announce that you’re turning on your ‘Allow users with tokens’ filter to your room mid-way through the show. Simply say “Hey guys! I’m turning off my free chat now! You can still watch for free but if you want to chat you must have tokens in your account! You don’t have to tip me but you have to have tokens to talk bb’s!” Saying it this way takes pressure off token holders to tip…but the enjoyable feeling of this VIP environment will more than likely make them want to thank you with a tip. ?

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When you click on  ‘Moderation’, this drop-down menu will appear: 

Manage your Bans – Click here if you would like to un-ban someone from your room, or see who is currently banned from your room. 

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Manage your Silences – Click here if you would like to lift a silence from a member in your current broadcast.

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Manage your Moderators- Remove moderator privileges from a viewer even if they are not currently in your room. 

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Manage your password protected shows – To begin a password protected show, click ‘Go Private’.

To end a password protected show, simply press ‘Go Public’ to return to an open room.

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~That’s all for this lesson!

Happy Camming!

Love, Your CAM4 Coaching TEAM

 

CAM4 is the most accepting, open camming community online: almost anything goes, as long as it is legal and doesn’t harm yourself or others. Here’s a cheat sheet you can reference if you aren’t sure of what’s allowed!

What am I allowed to do on cam?

• Masturbate
• Be naked
• Accept private shows
• Have guests (if they have uploaded ID and 2257)
• Be in public
• Use sex toys/objects for pleasure
• Hang out and chat
• Advertise your personal blog
• Sell merchandise
• Play games/raffles/contests
• Squirt shows
• BDSM shows
• Pee on cam
• Drink pee
• Role-play shows
• Wear uniforms/costumes
• Do shows with other CAM4 broadcasters

What am I NOT allowed to do on cam?

• Be under the age of 18 or have anyone under the age of 18 on cam with you
• Have animals on cam or use them in a show with you
• Operate heavy machinery – This includes driving a car, bus, van, motorcycle, mope-head, scooter, tractor, or any other sort of movable vehicle. 
• Advertise another competitor site
• Accept paypal or other 3rd party payments
• No unapproved people on cam
• No siblings/relatives
• No self harm or harming others
• No illegal drug use
• No blood
• No poo
• No vomit
• No weapons
• No hate speech
• No sleeping on cam

*Failure to comply with these rules will result in CAM4 Admin stopping your broadcast and taking necessary actions up to (or including) banning your account.

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~That’s all for this lesson!

Happy Camming!
Love, Your Coaching Team!

By pressing ‘Broadcast’ on the CAM4 homepage, you are creating your very own show where people can chat live with you. While there is always the element of surprise, I have made this guide to prepare you for the questions people will ask you in your chat room on CAM4.

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Requests for private shows.
As a new broadcaster, it feels great when your viewers want to take you into a private chat and they are a lot of fun to do. Its a great way to get 1 on 1 time with a viewer and turn them into a long time fan.

These are the types of show requests you can expect:

CAM4 private show
-You make tokens per min 
-You set your own rate per min under the ‘settings’ button in your broadcast window
-Default rate is 24 tokens per min/6 tokens per min for spy viewers
-You can choose to allow spy viewers
-Spy viewers can only see you, no audio and they can not chat. 
-Cam2cam option where you can both see and hear your viewer while in private. (Spy’s cannot see or hear your cam2cam viewer)
-Viewers can tip you if they like
-You get site support
-You keep your place on the homepage.

CAM4 group show
-You sell tickets during your public show
-You set the price, length of show, and number of tickets you want to sell
-You set your timer for ticket sales (You have max 30min to sell tickets to your show)
-The show starts when all tickets are sold
-If the timer runs out before you sell all your tickets you still have the option to do the show. If you decide NOT to do the group show, ticket sale tokens are returned to the viewers
-Viewers can tip you during the show if they like
-You get site support
-You keep your place on the homepage.

Off-site private shows
-You lose your place on the homepage
-No site support
-Chance of fraud increases
-Could have your Skype account banned if you are caught doing a private show.

Option:

Instead of going to another site to do a private show, you can use the password protected room feature to sell blocks of time to this viewer. That way you can still offer viewers a deal, have the privacy of a true private room,    and you don’t have to leave the protection of CAM4!

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Dozens of private messages.
Viewers love sending performers private messages when they are in public chat. It’s exciting to have a private conversation with you while you have hundreds of viewers watching.

Option:

If this becomes overwhelming simply say to your viewers that you are not taking PM’s (private messages) right now. Politely smile and tell them to chat in your public room. “Guys! The more I type the less I can perform!” That usually works.

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“Do you need me to be your moderator?”
These viewers may only be trying to help, but I recommend waiting till you get to know a viewer a bit before you make them your “Mod”.  Moderators have the ability to Kick, Silence, Ignore, or Ban anyone in your room, so you want to pick someone with your best interests at heart.

Option:

After a few shows you will get to know your viewers a bit. You should be the one who approaches a viewer about being your “Mod”, not the other way around.

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“Do you take PayPal bb?“
This one is a no-no. PayPal gives your full real name when you do a transaction and that is just not safe. You will be banned for advertising or accepting any forms of 3rd party payment.

Option:

Viewers have the option of using PayPal when buying tokens, the option is right on the payment menu.

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Millions of requests bb….
Some of these will be in the form of a question and some will be just words over and over. Whatever they are just remember every person in your chat room counts towards your total viewers and that moves you up the homepage.

Options:

Put a list of things you will do in your broadcast window text box, this wont stop them from requesting but at least the ones that are serious will know how to get their wish granted.

Keep it light and politely say “Oh looks like someone wants to take me private.” or “You first!”. The more you keep things light and fun the better.

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“What do you do in your shows/private shows?”
This is a common question you will get from viewers who want to get to know you better. It is best to have a general idea of where your boundaries are so you don’t get put on the spot.

Option:

On your CAM4 profile there is a section where you fill out your bio, this is the perfect place to talk about what your fans can expect during your shows. If you are not comfortable doing something state it here and stick to it.

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“What outfits/costumes/toys do you have bb?”
Lots of your viewers get turned on at the sight of your toys and sexy things you have to wear.

Option:

The best way to show your collection is to take pictures of all your outfits/toys for your CAM4 photo gallery that viewers can browse through. You can even create fun names for your outfits/toys.

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Tokens! Compliments! and More….
Your viewers will shower you with kind words and tips to show their appreciation. Make sure you show your appreciation back with a smile and a simple thank you.

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~That’s all for this lesson!

Happy Camming!
Love, Your Coaching Team!

 

The more you focus on making your shows fun and creative, the more viewers you are going to attract.

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Remember these simple rules when you start your CAM4 show.

 

#1. Be Patient.

Role-playing a new theme during your broadcasts? You should plan to do it for a week or more before you decide if it is worth continuing or not.

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#2. Perform for 10 viewers as you would 1000.

 You never know who is watching you. There might be the most loyal, awesome viewers in your room but if you are visibly upset about your numbers it can be insulting.

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#3. Don’t demand your viewers talk to you.

They are not all masters of conversation and talking to a hottie like yourself may be intimidating.

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#4. Use Color in your room.

This is not only eye catching from the CAM4 homepage and will attract people to your room, it will make your viewers more comfortable when they are there.

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#5. Have fun props.

You need to have these in your background to decorate your room and peek the interest of your viewers. It is a conversation starter, and the best way for YOU to not get bored on cam.

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#6. Be an Internet personality.

CAM4 is all about real people, real cams, in real time. This means that your viewers want to see more than just a body with a toy – they could get that anywhere. Be YOURSELF and share your personality, that is the cornerstone to success.

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~That’s all for this lesson!

Happy Camming!

Love, Your CAM4 Coaching TEAM